Sunday, August 26, 2012

Happenings

Leave it to me to not get any pictures of the first week of school. I know, what a lousy mom I'm turning out to be in the picture department (and don't ask me about how the baby books are coming along, because, well...just don't ask).

Our first week back to school is under our belt and we did great! I got to see all my adorable preschoolers this week and I can tell you already it's going to be so stinking adorable teaching them Spanish! The older kids were good and I'm really looking forward to seeing how my new curriculum works out. I think it's going to be awesome.

Layla has taken all the new changes so well! She is my big talker. She says a lot of words now and says a lot more than Brooklyn did at this age. So in that way she is more "advanced" than Brooklyn, but in other areas, she's behind, like her running. She's still a wobbly walker and doesn't really run. She walks fast and swings her arms all over the place - that's how she "runs". It's adorable and I could just pick her up and squeeze her and kiss her all over her cute chubby face!

The first week of school my parents were out of town so a friend from church came to our house each day and stayed with Layla. I was a little worried since this was the first time a non-family member was going to keep her and I didn't know how she would do. I was so happy to get a text with a picture from my friend of a happy little Layla, playing up a storm and later, a picture of her sleeping in her crib, butt in the air, after having let my friend know that she wanted her "baba" and wanted to go to bed for her nap! I was so relieved! So that took away a huge stress factor for my first week of school.

Brooklyn is also growing, changing and maturing. She basically talks in complete sentences all the time and only occasionally says things I can't quite understand. She is the smartest 3 year old I know (not biased of course, haha) and she absolutely loves school! Her new teacher is awesome and she already talks about her at home. We were a bit worried about her switching classes because she talked about her previous teacher all summer and would get upset when I would tell her she was going to have a new teacher. After her scheduled "meet the teacher" appointment the Monday before school started, I knew that fear would be laid to rest. She loved her new teacher and her new classroom and has since been coming home a very happy little girl. She still asks to go visit her previous teacher but it's a happy visit and not a sad one. It seems so mature to me that she is taking all this so well.

Another little fun change in things this year is that my mom will be a classroom aide for the 2 year olds (Brooklyn's class last year). She really needed a new job that wasn't so physically demanding and we just happened to need a classroom aide. It's really going to be perfect for her. Next school year, she'll get to have Layla in her room and she's really excited about that. I'm pretty sure Layla will be happy about that too! Tomorrow will be my mom's first day and I'm excited to go down to teach the 2 year olds and see how she's enjoying herself.

I really have to say how blessed I am to have the job that I do. I always wanted to teach at a private, Christian school and didn't think I was ever going to get the chance. I wouldn't take back my 4 years teaching high school Spanish in the public schools, but I'm so thankful to have moved on from that time. I learned so much and I know now that God was preparing me for the job I have now. It couldn't have come at a more perfect time and I know, that I know, that I know that it was all God!

Waylon has also started a new job and we're both really excited about it. It's his first regular day job with weekends off. Ever since we've been married, Waylon has had jobs that had him working evenings or weekends or both. Our schedules were always crazy and stressful and I know he wasn't happy in most of those jobs. He now works for a Christian company that seems like a really great company. It's not all perfect though; he does have to drive to Dallas every day from Fort Worth which is a lot of gas and mileage (and a toll every day) and it's his first job in a long time sitting at a desk and being on the phone all day as opposed to being on his feet and moving all day. It's been an adjustment for him but I really am praying that this job sticks for a long time. We literally get home within 30-40 minutes of each other on days that I work which is SO much better than me getting home from working all day, getting the kids, coming home and getting them all situated and then putting them to bed alone every night and him coming home after 9 or 10pm. I'm SO done with those days and so thankful for evenings and Saturdays home together. Thank you Lord.

My exercising and eating better has really been going well. I've tweaked some things and am actually eating more and losing weight faster. It sounded crazy when I first started reading about it but then it made a lot of sense. I was working out 6 days a week but eating the calories for a person who sat around all day and did nothing. My body wasn't getting enough to fuel everything I was doing and was hanging on to every calorie I took in. Once I started eating more, I felt better, my workouts were better and I started dropping pounds again. I'm now down 14 pounds since April (keep in mind that I had about a month or more of time since then that I "fell off the wagon" and stopped watching what I ate and didn't really exercise so I gained some back) and have lost about 11 inches, maybe more since I haven't measured in a couple of weeks. I'm starting week 6 of Couch 2 5K and have started running on the track instead of on the treadmill to prepare for an actual 5k I plan on running next month (in just 3 weeks...EEK!). I didn't realize how much harder it is to run when you're not on a treadmill...talk about a wake up call! So no more treadmill running for me. I've also been lifting and doing some other stuff for workouts. What I'm most excited about right now is that Waylon and I bought the Insanity workout DVDs and are going to start doing those together. It looks insanely hard but doable. We are also going to borrow P90X from my cousin and his wife and do that after we finish Insanity. I probably won't start Insanity until after I run my 5K so I can continue training for it. All in all, I'm really happy with where I am in my health changes and I am so glad they are changes that I can keep doing in the long run.

Those are the big highlights of what has been going on around here. I do plan on doing a post for each of the girls with pictures and specific information on each of them as well as a before and during post of my weight loss. That one will have to wait until I've lost another 4 pounds though because that will be when I hit my first big milestone.

Praying for all my public school friends who go back to school tomorrow! I know there are lots of my mommy friends who are sad to have to leave their babies again. I remember that feeling so well and just pray that God will comfort them as they start another new school year!

Saturday, August 11, 2012

The New Normals for Our Family

We have been getting used to our new normal around here and I think we're going to like it.

Old normal: Hubs worked 6 days a week from about 10-8 or 9pm.
New normal: Hubs works from 7:30-4:00 and is home by 5ish (we live in Ft. Worth and he drives to Dallas for work)

Old normal: I worked Mondays and Fridays all day.
New normal: I will be working Mondays, Wednesdays and Thursdays. This is a change I was very excited about. I could use the extra hours and by adding a third day it makes my other two days a little easier.

Old normal: Brooklyn went to school on Mondays and Wednesdays from 8:30-11:30
New normal: Brooklyn will go to school on Mondays, Wednesdays and Thursdays (same days as me!) from 8:30-2:00! She's such a big girl!

Old normal: we lived in a rental house. It was nice and fit our needs for 3 wonderful years.
New normal: we OWN (well, not yet but we're making payments towards owning) our house. It's smaller but we use ALL the space instead of wasting the extra we had in the other house. It's closer to my parents, our church, my job and the highway for Waylon. It's cute and the mortgage payment on it is $140 LESS than the house we were renting! Score!

Old normal: I ate crap and didn't exercise.
New normal: I eat better (not completely healthy but MUCH better) and I exercise at least 5 days a week. I'm training for a 5K and I will be starting a new weight lifting program that I'm really excited about. I've lost around 11 inches and 12 pounds since April, which isn't much but I think I'm going to start seeing results again now that I've tweaked my calories and workouts. I'll be dedicating a post entirely to this once I get going on the weight lifting program.

Old normal: sporadic and rare quiet times followed by frustrating days.
New normal: consistent quiet times followed by frustrating days BUT I handle them better! :)

Old normal: messy, disorganized and cluttered house.
New normal: slightly less messy, disorganized and mostly uncluttered house. (Still working on this one!)

So there you have it. A few things that have changed for us lately that are making quite an impact on our life right now. God is GOOD!

Thursday, August 2, 2012

Summer

This is my last week of summer break. I wish I could say I was doing fun things with my children and enjoying all the extra time I have with them. But I'm not. It's been over 105 every day this week. That means no going outside for us. I don't get paid in the summer and hubs just started a new job this week after not really working for about a month. That means no money coming in, which means, only doing things that are free, which means I don't get out of the house hardly at all.

All that translates into is me being couped up in my smallish house with two little girls who have been fighting a lot more lately, getting into things they are not supposed to and hurting themselves! Poor Layla has had a nose-dive that resulted in a huge scab on her nose from rug burn and a a black eye from running into the corner of our little foldable TV table. Brooklyn is always coming to me with something else she did to hurt herself (which is usually nothing more than banging her toe or something like that), always the drama queen.

So the other day, I really needed the girls to entertain themselves for a while so I got out their sea shells that their Nana brought them (my mother-in-law). They love playing with those but I keep them put away so they are more of a treat to play with. Plus, they do break so I want them to last a while. I took some pictures of them playing. If you ignore all the other bedroom furniture around them, you can almost pretend the carpet is sand and that they are sitting on a beach somewhere. I kept imagining that while I took pictures of them playing.















I have really been praying each day to keep my patience under control with the girls and not get too frustrated when they cling to me all day. Poor Brooklyn is constantly being told "no" and getting in trouble because she's at that age where she wants to do everything (without asking) and "help" with things (which usually end up getting broken or spilled or she just can't do). I feel bad and I try to find things to do with her so she doesn't feel like mommy is always mad at her. But it's hard, let me tell you. And she is starting to develop an attitude and actually roll her eyes at me and talk back! That took me by surprise the first time it happened, now I've come to expect it.

Layla is just my sweet little baby. She's still a baby to me and seems more like a baby than Brooklyn was at this age. She's cuddly and loves to give kisses these days. She says a bunch of words and can throw an ugly tantrum like none other I've ever seen on a 15 month old. She goes from happy to FURIOUS in less than a second and I don't think I'll have to worry about her standing up for herself against her sister or anyone else, for that matter. Poor Rowf is always yelping about something Layla is doing to him (she'll stick her hand in his mouth and hook her fingers around his bottom teeth/jaw and start pulling!).


Despite all the frustration I have felt lately (mainly due to the weather keeping us stuck in the house all day every day), I still feel blessed beyond measure to have these two beautiful girls as my daughters. I look at them sometimes and just cannot believe that they are mine. That I have two kids, two GIRLS at that! The love I feel for them almost kills me some days. God really does amazing things in our hearts to allow us to love so fully and deeply every child we have. I never thought I could love another child the way I loved Brooklyn. And then Layla came and I loved her just as much! If/when I have our third, I will love him or her as much as Brooklyn and Layla. Unfathomable.

I hope you're all having a great summer and get to do something fun as the break winds to a close. Today is my 4 year wedding anniversary and my husband and I are going out for a nice dinner tonight. I'm looking forward to it!